Category Archives: Opinion

The Human Race

http://www.humanracenow.org/The Human Race in Santa Rosa is May 5, 2012.

This is a non-profit fund-raising organization that helps many other non-profits, small schools and groups raise money. Many people involved with these groups have their own “teams” of walkers or runners that raise money before the race and then attend the race dressed in costumes or team shirts.

My daughter goes to New Horizon School & Learning Center in Santa Rosa, a very small school for kids 7-12 grades with learning disabilities. This fund-raising event is the schools main event for the whole year. Each student is encouraged to raise $100 each and to help find other businesses that will be sponsors. All of the teaching staff at the school is actively involved as well as many parents to reach a $30,000 goal. The Human Race overall goal for the whole area is $250,000. It is encouraging to see the heartfelt donations come in, sometimes in  $10 increments. Every bit counts. They also have a Restaurant Week where many local restaurants have volunteered to donate a certain percentage of their profits on one designated day to a particular group in the Human Race. New Horizon School has found Sweet River Grill & Bar in Coddingtown Mall and they have generously decided to give 15% of all proceeds from May 2 to the school.

I know in today’s economy, it seems like every time you turn around we’re asked to donate to something. It is truly sad times when we have fundraise for friends or family when their insurance doesn’t cover all of their care from an accident, illness or even worse, they’ve lost their insurance all together. Now we are fund-raising for schools, the Boy Scouts, your kid’s soccer team, band class, and on and on the list goes. But we all pull together and give what we can, some of us giving of our time as that is all we have to give. It is all appreciated.

For more info:
www.HumanRaceNow.org
New Horizon School fundraising page where you can donate directly to the school

Today,  New Year’s Eve,  I’m  reflecting on all that has gone on this past year. It has been a year of major changes for me. As a new way of life is emerging from the old thoughts, habits, perceptions and even living space, … Continue reading

Modern Day Nightmare

Modern Day Nightmare

I had a dream this morning. Well more like a nightmare. My laptop and iPhone were sitting on a desk next to an open window and when I came back into the room, someone had taken them. I was distraught to say the least. Aside from being upset that I had lost something valuable that I don’t have the money to replace, the sheer terror of realizing that I now have no way for anyone to get a hold of me or me them. I am one of those people who have turned off the land line. I don’t have a little paper phone book anymore with all my contacts in it either. Everyone I know has been put into my address book on my phone and computer. I only have a few key phone numbers memorized . Yes I back it up to an external hard drive but I only have one of those and it was gone with the computer. I use both computer and phone constantly for work, school and to keep in touch with everyone. Without them I would be lost.

I came close to this nightmare being partially a reality a few months ago when my phone got wet and shorted out two days before I was traveling somewhere. I couldn’t imagine leaving without a phone. After a trip to the ATT store only confirmed that I would have to spend a boat load of money to replace my phone, I tried the Apple Store next. To my amazement they replaced the phone! It was 2 days short of the end of its one year warranty and the fact that they don’t cover water damage, which I was well aware of, made their decision to replace it all the more surprising to me. But I gladly accepted their generous one time offer and went off on my trip with a working connection to my world, feeling so much safer and with peace of mind that I could get a hold of anyone or have any information I might need at my finger tips.

It made me think how for the most part, people have embraced the use of daily cell phone and internet use. Gone are the days of using a pay phone or even the phone in your hotel room other than to order room service. Most research isn’t done with books and if you want to know the answer to almost any question you just Google it. With the upcoming cloud based servers, maybe my nightmare wouldn’t have been so bad as all my important info would be accessible from any computer. Then it would just have been about the replacement cost. Wait, that would still be a nightmare! I was so happy when that little alarm went off on my phone waking me up this morning.

Book Review: Thyroid Mind Power

ThyroidMindPowerEveryone should read Thyroid Mind Power  by Richard Shames, MD , Karilee Shames, PhD, RN, and Georajan Shames, LAc. If this book doesn’t help  you, it will help someone you know. In fact every doctor and therapist should read this book too. If you know of someone who suffers from any of these symptoms: constantly tired, depression, addictions, insomnia, narcolepsy, anxiety, panic attacks, memory loss, feeling foggy, cold hands and feet, chronic irritability, angry for no reason, ADD, ADHD, alcoholism, eating disorders, dementia and more, it is possible with the right testing, that their thyroid
is too low/high. Thyroid affects how everything else functions in our body yet most people don’t know that their problems could all stem from it not working correctly. Many doctors don’t understand what tests they should order that will show true thyroid levels either. They use the standard test and tell you if you fall in-between these ranges, you don’t have a problem, even though there are more precise tests out there that will tell you otherwise.

Part I of this book describes all of the symptoms and many of the problems caused by too low/high thyroid levels. There is a self assessment questionnaire and recommendations on where to get properly tested. There are many natural supplements and acupuncture that can help with this problem as well, which are also covered.

Part II has five chapters on what type of person you may be (Moody, Edgy, Foggy, Sleepy, Needy) and the symptoms, causes, and help for this type of person.

Part III sums it all up and gives you recommendations for where to find help, additional thyroid boosters, advice about eating better, hormones, how and why to reduce stress, vitamin recommendations and reasons why you should meditate, exercise, and various other helpful advice.

I now realize why I had these health problems all of my life and that I had inherited the thyroid problem from my mother (who never knew she had one). Between that and the constant barrage of offending carcinogens that are in our water (fluoride is a huge culprit), the food we eat and the air we breath, it’s pretty hard not to have your thyroid affected over the long run these days. This book will help you deal with it and hopefully get you the care you deserve.

This last part is My Personal Story

I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism when I was 19. I took thyroid medicine for a year. When I was 25 and expecting my first child, I was told that I was low on thyroid but nothing would be done until after the baby was born. After that I was put on synthetic thyroid medicine again and have been on it ever since. My first few doctors rarely ran blood tests to monitor it. Most would feel my neck and say everything was just fine, no need for tests, just keep taking the same dose. Yet I had horrible menstrual problems all those years, hot flashes, headaches, tinnitus, freezing hands and feet and other things. I was told repeatedly that this was also normal (now I know they were all signs of thyroid imbalance, even though I was already on thyroid medication). By the time I was 40 I had endometriosis so bad that I needed a complete hysterectomy, which threw me into instant medical menopause. At the same time, my mother who had similar problems all her life was diagnosed with endometrial cancer (of which she died from 3 years later). It wasn’t until I started researching endometriosis and endometrial cancer that I realized I had probably inherited her problems.

It was a few years after my hysterectomy and in search of relief from the unexplained weight gain and constant nausea that I had while wearing my hormone patch, I discovered a doctor who explained what thyroid should do and how it affected my hormone problems. Between readjusting my thyroid medications, adding T3 and adding some natural bio-identical hormone replacement creams, my life was turned around. Everything was not 100% better but I now understood how things worked and that it would be a constant process of tweaking the various medications to deal with the changes my body would naturally go through over time.

I believe in using natural products and therapies. It’s a sorry state that we live in when we can’t get or afford the natural remedies we need because our insurance doesn’t cover it, a doctor doesn’t know anything about it, or a pharmaceutical company doesn’t sell it. I have gone to holistic doctors, massage therapist, chiropractors and acupuncturist, including Georjana Shames, one of the authors of this book, and believe in their healing ways. But it’s all been at my own expense, which is financially hard on most people these days. Some insurance companies are realizing how these area’s of healing can help. Even Kaiser has started adding many of  these specialist to their list of providers. Give this book to your doctor or ask him/her to read it. If your doctor won’t or can’t help you,  Dr. Richard ShamesKarilee Shames, PhD, RN, and Georajan Shames, LAc. would be glad to help


The Party Planner

I have been the family party planner since I was a teen. Yesterday I was asked to plan a wedding party. In a week. Five days before Christmas for an intimate group of twenty or so. Not a big deal. It’s just a surprise. No, it’s not for any of my daughters either. It’s for my father!

I have catered Christmas office parties for my father’s business for the last 25 years or more. My mother loved to plan the food and decorations but she didn’t deal well with the stress of putting it all together and cooking everything. That’s where I came in. I became the chef and glorified dish washer/maid all in one. It was a lot cheaper for them than taking everyone to a restaurant and I made some extra money. I put on some pretty good parties over the years too with the menu getting more elaborate as I gained experience in the kitchen. I managed it through three pregnancies and three infants in bouncy seats sitting on the kitchen floor while I buzzed around the kitchen cooking, serving and cleaning. As the girls grew up, they too would help me, eventually becoming my sous-chefs and waitresses, charming the socks off the office staff. But all that ended when my mother died and a few years latter my father retired. No need for parties.

Now my father has found a new love. I’m happy for him too. My job as the party planner continues yet again. Here’s to last-minute weddings!

Laughter is the Best Medicine

I am thankful for the people out there that make me laugh. They say laughter is the best medicine. We should laugh at ourselves, laugh at the funny things that little kids do and say, be with people who make us laugh. It helps with stress, improves your mood and makes you healthier.

I like finding funny things and passing them on to friends to hopefully brighten their day. I don’t want to fill up their email with a bunch of junk though. That’s why I like to share a funny link on Twitter or Facebook every now and then. I can post it and it’s up to you if you click on it. Here’s a video of a woman teaching face yoga. She is serious. It’s not supposed to be funny but when she gets to the smiling fish face exercise at the end, you’ll be pretty hard pressed to keep a straight face. Ask someone else to make this face. It produces fits of giggles from anyone watching.

So thank you to all you clever bloggers, comedians, and people with video camera’s catching your kids or pets doing funny things.  Thanks to the funny people who make this world a better place with your sense of humor, the way you look at something different from the rest of us. It brightens my day. Happy Thanksgiving!

Reading For Fun?

I love to read. I love to learn new things. But I have to admit that I go through different types of books and how I read them. Sometimes I have a couple of books that I am reading all at once. Sometimes I have books that sit around for a long time. Eventually I’ll read them all. This is what’s on the reading pile now. Self-help types (The Twisted Sisterhood), teaching types (The Twitter Book, Head First WordPress, Cooking For Geeks), some just for fun (Twitchhiker, John Grisham’s The Client). Sometimes I’m not reading anything at all for weeks at a time. But when I have to fill out forms and list the things I do for fun, I put reading first. The list falls apart from there as I’m torn between the things I like to do vs. the things I wish I could do more of ie: cook, art vs. travel, riding.

When I was a kid growing up in the country I spent a lot of time outdoors but when inside I always had my face buried in a book. We didn’t have a TV as my parents believed it caused all kinds of harm. Maybe it did and maybe it didn’t. I believe that if I wanted to find things to cause me harm, I could find it in books just as well as on TV but that’s neither here nor there now. I managed to bring my own kids up with a love of books despite the influences of TV and the internet so I think maybe it has a lot more to do with your parenting style.

I seem to justify reading now if I’m learning something, hence the self-help or teaching types or I’ll stretch this category by adding historical novels here (I know, that is stretching it but it works for me). So as winter quickly approaches and I spend less time outside, I’m looking forward to getting to all those books…after work, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, taxiing children….